Hotwife Contract

Hotwife Contract

I consent to fulfil the role of a Hotwife up to 20 encounters per year with other partners chosen for me to enjoy.

My responsibilities are outlined as follows;
- I consent to have sex with up to 5 different partners in each 12 month period.
- I consent to have sex with complete strangers (chosen by my husband).
- I consent to have sex with partners of any age group (18 to 75).
- I consent to have threesome’s (MMF) sex at my husbands discretion.
- I consent to being presented for pleasure in anyway that is requested, e.g. being restrained etc.
- I consent to a debriefing session and full physical examination with my hubby after each encounter.

- My husband is to select all partners and submit images and correspondence for approval prior to our encounter, including details of sexual expectations, testing verification and use of condoms etc.

- I may propose additional sexual encounters more than the agreed above, however all encounters need to be approved by my husband.

- I will limit my sexual encounters with each partner to a maximum of 5 occasions, unless approved by my husband, and
If I develop feelings of loving affection for another partner, I will immediately stop any further communication until I have
fully discussed the situation and the benefits of an additional lover.

- I commit to fully exploring my sexuality during these encounters and offer my body without reservation for sexual pleasure.
- I understand that my husband loves me, and by extension loves to share me.
- I consent to submit to a full physical examination after my encounters to satisfy my husbands desires.

My husbands responsibilities are outlined as follows;
- He may not question, or complain about anything that happens on an encounter.
- He may not insist that I perform anything I do not want to do, or insist on more encounters than agreed.
- He promises to love and respect me more.
- He commits to finding my sexual partners and all communication and testing verification as required.
- He commits to facilitating the encounter in whichever way i would prefer.
- He commits to fully preparing my body to meet my partners requests and expectations
- He commits to act as discrete sexual assistant and videographer if required.
- He is responsible for my safety and well-being including consent to allow bareback or protected sex.

As a couple our responsibilities are as follows;
- To openly communicate feelings at all times.
- To agree that if at any stage of an encounter a participant wants to stop, that the encounter will cease immediately without question or recourse.
- To approach this commitment with an open mind and consider each others feelings about this at all times.
- Understand that sex is fun, and should be treated as such.
- Understand that nothing is more important than their relationship and marriage.

Signed by;



Footnotes:

1. Hotwife definition;
A married woman who has the freedom in her marriage to pursue sexual pleasure with men other than her husband. Her husband has full knowledge of her activities and consents to them in order to fulfil his fantasy of sharing her.

2.Encounter definition;
A date with another man with the purpose to meet and have sex.
An encounter should be planned, however if a situation where the opportunity to have a sex with another arises this can be agreed if both wife and husband consent.

3. Sex definition;
Sex should be considered as any physical contact between the wife and another man this may include;
- open mouthed kissing
- touching and fondling
- being naked together and hugging and touching
- genital touching and penetration with fingers and toys
- giving and receiving oral sex
- vaginal penetration, (with or without condoms is wife's choice)

Limits during sex;
- generally few limits but special requests can be submitted in advance and agreed

4. Sexual Partner definition;
Another man who is contacted with the sole purpose to have sex with the wife only. This man is likely be a stranger to both the husband and the wife, and would not be likely to come into contact with the couple ever again, unless arranged as a follow up encounter. The man will range in age from 18-75 and will be clean and presentable, reasonably well endowed if possible although this is not a definite requirement, single or married status (no preference). The personality of the man should be polite and generally respectful. The wife's pleasure and comfort at all times is paramount, the sexual partner will understand this.

5. Ways to Play;

Option 1 – As a threesome, where the wife will be the centre of attention to her two men, and will engage in sexual acts with both men equally.

Option 2 – As a single, where the wife will meet with the other man by herself and will have sex with the other man alone. The encounter should be documented in some way so that the husband can enjoy and understand what took place.

Option 3 – As a watched single, where the wife and husband will meet the other man and then the husband will watch the wife have sex with the man but will not participate unless his assistance is requested. How much, and what the husband watches will be at the discretion of the wife.